SO WHAT STOPS YOU FROM BEING HAPPY IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP❓
Is it you or your relationship that’s not HAPPY❓
Most couples, believe their relationship needs support (HELP) however, it’s not the relationship more often than not it’s the individual that needs support.
You see we all have a blueprint (childhood) and for many people they carry deep suppressed unhealed emotional pain and trauma for years and for some until the day they die.
✅ WHAT I KNOW IS THIS:
It takes only one particular situation or event to trigger a past painful emotional feeling or experience to resurface from deeply hidden to the sub conscious mind.
Unfortunately for so many people they are not aware nor understand WHY their conscious (surface) mind feels a certain way.
What people do notice is what’s currently happening to them and around them, that they instantly blame it on that. Rather than taking time to self reflect and look deeper within to find the true cause.
HENCE THE RELATIONSHIP IS IDENTIFIED AS THE PROBLEM‼
The state of your relationship maybe just be a direct result (outcome) of HOW you feel about yourself.
Once you work on self and gain inner happiness, that happiness will automatically flow through to your relationship and every other area in your life.
As a culture we are surrounded by so much sadness, doom, gloom and disconnection everyday and it’s everywhere on our planet.
Is it NOT surprising people are not HAPPY within themselves‼
❇ Turn on the TV what do you see?
❇ Speak to a friend or turn on the radio what do you hear?
❇ Look around you what do you feel?
It seems the norm to be SAD and unhappy in your relationship, afterall apparently the HONEYMOON stage is NOT sustainable.
THAT IS SUCH B.S ‼ 🤬🤬🤬
If you want anything bad enough you can attain it, even a LOVING LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP ❤❤
To think I have been asked if my relationship is as HAPPY as what it appears.
There is something way out of balance ☯️
Culturally so much of who we are and what makes us happy is focused only on the external, it’s time to shift and focus on internal‼
It’s not easy to be vulnerable, open and at times accountable for yourself however, it’s absolutely worth it.
I CHOOSE TO HONOR ME BY BEING THE BEST VERSION I CAN FOR ME AND MY HUSBAND‼
Make the conscious decision today, no longer choose to hold onto your pain and allow it to destroy your relationship.
WHAT DO YOU VALUE❔❔❔
What do you choose:
❌ UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP
✔ HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP